Please understand this:
Sometimes holding on does more damage than letting go.
It’s painful to admit that you’ve been lying to yourself.
It hurts to admit that you’ve been accepting toxic behavior and, therefore, are partly to blame for the suffering you’ve endured.
It hurts to come to terms with the fact you set the expectations they didn’t meet;
that you offered forgiveness when there was no apology;
that you didn’t speak up;
that you kept giving without receiving in return.
It hurts to realize that you don’t have what it takes to be the “hero” you thought you could be.
It hurts to admit that you can’t change someone who doesn’t believe they have a problem.
Above all, it’s painful to let go when you’ve invested so much.
Like an intern working overtime for a position that was never available in the first place, it’s devastating to realize you’ve been investing time, energy, and love into something that never actually existed.
It hurts to know you gave everything you had to someone who gave nothing in return.
It hurts to know that you tried your best and it still wasn’t enough.
It hurts to realize that your best will never be enough.
It hurts to admit that you had choices and you chose wrong-
I get it; it HURTS!
But the great thing about LIFE is that as long as you’re STILL breathing, you have the opportunity to make better decisions and produce better outcomes!
You don’t HAVE to tolerate hurt, pain, abuse, devastation.
Make peace, and let go.
You deserve better.
The more you feed your mind with positive thoughts, the more you can attract great things into your life. Amen 🙏😇
... "And when you slammed the front door shut,
A lot of others opened up,
So did my eyes, so I could see" (Daughtry - Over You)
... "Seek the roses along the way,
Just beware of the thorns"
(Scorpions - Send me an Angel)
... "Through my veins is flowing,
From my shipwreck I heard her call"
(Coldplay - Don't let it Break Your Heart)
"Some will win, some will lose,
Some were born to sing the blues"
(Journey - Don't Stop Believing)
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L'amore che resta
Ci sono treni che vanno altri che vengono, alcuni che hanno finito la loro corsa, qualcuno in ritardo.
Una delle mie nonne ieri ha completato il suo lungo viaggio e ora ci guarderà aspettare il nostro treno in ritardo, impazienti.❤️
Gli altri miei nonni invece ripartono puntuali per una nuova destinazione, facendo oggi un trasloco all'età di quasi 80 anni.
Mentre io, che ne ho 31, vado a dormire alle 23 al sabato sera...vabbeh...
Tutto è denso.
Un grande cambiamento che arriva in un attimo disarmandoti anche se credi di essere preparato...e in realtà non lo sei mai.
Credo poco alle coincidenze, ma nella mia stazione questa ha spaccato il secondo.
Mi sono ritrovata nell'enorme casa dei miei nonni sola con le pareti.. 36 anni di vita loro e 31 anni miei.
Ora vedo le impronte che abbiamo lasciato, i solchi nei muri, orme nei pavimenti, l'eco nelle pareti e nell'aria.
Tutto ha lasciato un segno nitido in questa casa e lei, lei ha fatto lo stesso ai suoi abitanti.
Non fa nulla per trattenermi, ma comunque non riesco a chiudermi dietro la porta e dire arrivederci...sono sempre stata rigida ai cambiamenti, ma.. spegnamo le luci e caliamo il sipario perché ora si ricomincia.
Nel nuovo appartamento, mentre stiamo sistemando gli scatoloni mia nonna si gira, mi guarda e mi dice : "adesso andiamo a casa?"... #feelings#happeningnow#move#moveon#news#walls#home#forever#photographer#homesweethome#emptyhouse#myhouse#gohome#shadows#lights#turnoff#closed#daylight#wallpaper#prints#footsteps#oldhouse#vintage#atticroom#details#change
Y’all ever just have days where you’re like “I KNOW YOU TESTIN ME UNIVERSE” ..... .
Today is one of those days Lord Jesus come save my soul. . ‼️ The 1 thing I have completely control over is how I react to situations. And let’s be 100 with y’all, I could have reacted positive to the BS happening today and I still woulda been pissed 😂 .
TRUTH ALERT: sometimes we get reminders that we. are. human. We feel things, HEAVEN FORBID we have emotions. It’s ok to be at your max sometimes, that’s called 🔆 LIFE 🌀 & it ain’t always Sunflowers and Pinot AMMIRITE. .
When times like these come, we stop • shout 5 things you’re grateful for • praise Jesus for your ability to love • and move on. .
Who can relate.... 🙋🏼♀️🙋🏼♀️🙋🏼♀️ ?? . .
📸 me @ Grayton Beach 😍 Photo bringing me back to life today. .